The Ultimate Russian Bride Source

Elnara from Yalta, Ukraine

One BIG mistake that guys start making when they start seeking a russian babe is they forget who they are. It's easy to understand why, and I've lost my head once or twice myself. When you start emailing these beautiful women, and they start emailing you back, it's alot for your average guy to process.

Let's be honest here, on domestic dating sites these gorgeous women would be so overloaded with chat requests and admirer emails chances are they wouldn't even have the chance to get to your email, let alone give you the time of day to get to know who you are and what you are about.

These women come from a very different social environment. Things to know:

In countries of the former soviet union women outnumber men 4 to 1.

Because of the stiff competition this environment creates the "standard" of beauty for women living in these countries is much higher than what we see here in our own. A woman that would take your breath away on the streets of, say Charlotte, North Carolina might not even be a head turner in Belarus, Crimea, or Moscow.

In addition, Western men are foreign to them and are viewed as mysterious, romanic, family oriented, and faithful. These are all things in your favor that get your foot in the door- but don't make these common mistakes:

Don't let all the attention go to your head. Congrats, you've got her attention, talk down to her or act like she's the lucky one to be talking to you and you're done. Getting lots of attention from beautiful russian ladies can make your head swell real fast, but first impressions are everything. Act like you're god's gift and you'll find the attention that fed your ego so much before waining FAST.

Russian women aren't desperate. The chances for her to find happiness in her home country are stacked against her so she's looking for love online. This isn't the 80's, the cold war is over and she's not after a "green card".

Most Russian and Ukrainian women don't have home computers. Chances are the woman you are emailing or chatting with had to travel 45 mintutes to 2 hours to get to an agency or internet cafe to get online to read your email and respond to you. Treat her time as if it's as valuable (if not more so) as yours. Don't send her one line email responses and make the most of the time you have with her if you happen to be online together. Impress her by understanding this and go a step further by tring to set up chat "dates" when you know you can both be online at the same time.



Beautiful Jewel of the Black Sea Elnara from Yalta, Ukraine

My russian women dating tip for you this week is an easy one, just a bit of eye candy for you to enjoy.

Found on YouTube:


"Beautiful Aleona from Yalta, Ukraine. Great interview with this student and part time model from www.russianlovematch.com. Discover the wants and desires of this sexy young russian woman seeking a faithful western man."

This is the kind of women to shoot for; sexy & intelligent with just a touch of that russian naivete that makes them oh so irresistible.

Congratulations, you've made it past your introduction email and you've found a few beautiful russian women who have expressed interest back. You've made the first step, but don't pat yourself to hard on the back just yet. The next step is moving from becoming just a guy on the computer to becoming someone real, someone she thinks about not just as an imaginary pen pal, but someone viable worthy of her affection and attention.

You've peaked her interest, but now you've got to hold it. The first step in doing this is proper communication, which is what I'll attempt to address here.

When talking to beautiful russian women innitially it is to your advantage to be behind a computer. Most men are nervous and hesitant in conversing with a gorgeous babe you might consider traditionally to be out of your league. Remember as I stated earlier, confidence is the key, and behind a keyboard you can trust you won't stutter or say something regrettable. You have time to think before you speak, so use it wisely.

Some things when sending email are pretty basic- Don't TYPE IN ALL CAPS. Even overseas it's still considered shouting and rude, not to mention annoying on the eyes.

Keep it Real- Being behind a keyboard should give you the added confidence you need to project self esteem and machismo even if you don't have it, which is a good thing, but don't stretch the truth or enhance your personality to the point where you're projecting someone you're not or an image you couldn't possibly live up to. Don't tell her your a millionaire if you're not, don't say you drive a porsche if there's a taurus in your driveway. These are all things she'll have to eventually find out. Keep in mind you are looking for someone who will be your life partner- you want to find a good woman who will love you for all you are, not for all you aren't and never will be. If you hide something major from the russian babe you've been talking to or tell a bold faced lie to the ukrainian chick you've been lusting after you can bet your bottom dollar when you get found out your chances just went down the drain with the rest of your story.

Use Common Words- I'm sure you're proud of your college level vocabulary but emailing and chatting with a russian woman isn't the time or the place to flex your thesaurus. When talking with your special russian gal, email, text or video chat, you should try to stick to words that are commonly used in the english language and avoid slang or other words not commonly used by the average schmoe. This is not saying that russian women are less intelligent or slower than western women, education has been a great stength for the former soviet union for decades, this is stricly for the ease of translation and avoid confusion when conversing with someone who is in all likelyhood just getting a grasp on the english language. In Russia the percentage of college educated adults is double the percentage of that in the united states- some food for thought and a tip to never underestiamte the intelligence of a russian woman (something that I'm sure will come in handy more than once).

Internet Geek Speak- Leave your "LoLz!" at home. Abbreviations such as "BRB", "ROFL", "LOL" and others do not translate well and may confuse the women you are talking with. Most of these women are learning english as a second or third language, and some internet slang practically qualifies as a language of it's own. This kind of goes hand in hand with the tip above. Mainly you should be concise and direct with your thoughts and take the time to spell out your words.

Emoticons- Over time those annoying little sideways smiley faces have intergrated their way into much of our online communication. This is mostly a western thing. Faces like :) ;) :P just come across as odd punctuation in an international email and also may confuse the woman you are interested in. You could take the time to explain to the russian ladies you talk to that @~ is a rose, or you could really impress them by sending them actual roses instead.

Coming on Strong- As pretty as the woman is you're talking to, as much as "Gee gosh you're hot!" wasn't a good opener it's not a good follow up. No matter how bad you're dying to know what turns on the beautiful russian woman you are emailing, you should wait until you have established a solid rapport before asking any questions that might be considered offensive. I know it might be hard for some of you horn dogs to do, but keep in mind one of the things that attracted you to russian women in the first place- traditional old fashioned values. You want the russian women you are talking to be good intentioned, marriage minded women who are a little old fashioned when it comes to family values, that applies to social morals as well.



Sexy Single Student Kate from Odessa, Ukraine

So you've found a profile of a woman you would like to get to know better. You want to introduce yourself, but how do you do it?

First- you have to take the time. You may be thinking to yourself, "How do I know if this chick is even gonna dig me?" and the truth is YOU DON'T, but you'll never find out if you don't take the time to send a proper "hello".

This is international online dating. The russian women you are viewing are expressly interested in a serious relationship- few people want to go through the hassle of international communication for just a roll in the hay. The time you spend composing your email is an indicator of your level of interest in both the woman you are emailing as well as the dating / courting process as a whole. You don't need to go crazy and write a novel, remember this is your first email so don't go too heavy handed, but going overboard is better than falling short. "Hey, you look hot. What's up?" will not work here (and probably won't get you real far anywhere else either).

You need to send an email that shows you put some time and effort into thinking before you started typing. You need to send an email that's more than a few lines long and you need to have some level of personalization so she knows you're not just copy and pasting a generic email to every broad on the site trying to play the odds.

Secondly- what do women love to talk about? Themselves. A good way to start is to touch on her- what caught your eye and motivated you, and DON'T say her knockers! Maybe it was her eyes, maybe something about her face, pay her a compliment. Follow it up with a question about something she lists in her profile, show you took the time to read it. Maybe ask her something about where she's from (Russia? Ukraine? Belarus? Latvia?), ask her something about her home town (Moscow? Kiev? St. Petersburg?).

Now it's time to follow up with some details about you. WHO are YOU and what are some points of interest that make you worth talking to. You don't have to tell your life story here, but you've got to give them something to peak their interest back. What do you do for a living? What do you do in your spare time? These are all good points that are light enough for an introduction email and provide enough information to hopefully get your foot in the door.


Available Russian Hottie Tatiana8830 from Nikolaev, Ukraine

There's one thing that universally all women find attractive- CONFIDENCE.

It is important that you take a minute to assess your profile before you start your search for your russian dream girl. If you play your cards right you can actually make your profile work for you.

First things first- break out the camera. You have to have a photo and it better be a good one.

The same themes you want to see in a woman's profile pics she wants to see in yours, and I don't mean your legs.
1. Dress Nice! You want to look your sharpest. You want to project that you are a mature man, and nothing does that better than a nice suit or a crisp pressed shirt and tie. Trust me, the short bald guy in the suit will beat the 20 something year old boy in a stained t-shirt and jeans every time.

2. SMILE! A smile goes along way. This isn't myspace- a broody expression hiding in the shaddows doesn't culturally translate as tough or macho, it translates to a russian woman as creepy or a man with something to hide. Show you're confident in yourself with a nice honest smile.

3. Knock their socks off with the background. You don't have to photoshop in a lamborghini to impress, but take a look around at what you have, what are you proud of? Do you have a nice car? Have your picture taken by it. Flat screen TV? Have your picture taken by it. Love your yard? Have your picture taken in it. You get the picture. Even taking a pic with your dog says something about you and your personal responsibilities, so use it to your advantage.

4. .. and this one is most important- MAKE SURE YOUR PICTURES ARE CLEAR. You don't want photos that are blurred or pixelated, that's practically like having no photos at all. Digital cameras are so cheap if you don't have one it would be a wise investment. Cell phone photos are not where it's at.


Sexy Single Angela91 from Odessa, Ukraine

Why a russian bride? What qualities make russian women so appealing?
Well first off, their beauty. Russian women are known the world over to be some of the most beautiful women in the world, but looks alone are not enough. Sure, beauty attracts men to russian women, but there is more to the equasion.

A large reason many men seek russian brides is old fashioned values. Men who want a woman who is a comfort not a competetor, a woman who puts family goals before career goals, a woman who sees her husband and home as an extension of herself.

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